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07-29-2010, 08:17 AM
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More prayers for me this time
More things have blown up now. Please just pray for God to give me the attitude I should have now. Honestly I am past the being hurt stage. I don't cry anymore. I am to the ticked off stage. I even told husband this point blank so he would realize that was a bad thing. His reply was he didn't want me to cry. I tried to explain that not crying is a bad thing as it means things are not hurting when they should. I am tried of living with him threatening me when he doesn't get his way. I am tired of the rudeness. I am done and gave out all I could. I am not walking away but I am not trying to improve the relationship either. For the first time in our marriage I am at this point. I am drained!
Tammy 
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07-29-2010, 08:31 AM
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Proverbs 4:5 Get wisdom, get understanding; do not forget my words or swerve from them. Total Money Makeover Step 1: Saving for $1000 Emergency Fund. Total as of today: $50 Personal Health Makeover 2010: 17lbs lost, 23 inches gone as of April 6.
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07-29-2010, 08:41 AM
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I pray that you would be filled with the power of the Holy Spirit.
Is counseling an option right now?
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"Our relationship with each other is the criterion the world uses to judge whether our message is truthful--Christian community is the final apologetic. ~ Francis Shaeffer "By this all men will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another." John 13:35
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07-29-2010, 11:38 AM
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*HUGS*
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~Erica~ Mommy to one awesome girlie and two cute lil boys. 
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07-29-2010, 03:55 PM
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Tammy .. I have prayed.
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Connie~ Hebrews 11:1 "Now faith is being sure of what we hope for and certain of what we do not see." http://www.swagbucks.com/refer/Mom2JTSJ
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07-30-2010, 09:14 AM
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I have felt that way before. Praying for you!
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http://bronte73-freeindeed.blogspot.com ~ Psalms 34:4, "I sought the Lord and He answered me, and delivered me from all my fears." ~ http://www.swagbucks.com/refer/bronte73
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#9
07-30-2010, 02:30 PM
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it's part of a grieving stage, tammy....
the anger CAN be good. i'd journal, pray, whatever it takes to just let it out. when we hold anger in, it gets to a deep place in us. until we've been fully angry, we can't MOVE forward. praying for you
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Yakky Isaiah 30:15 ...in returning to me and resting in me will you be saved. in quietness and confidence is your strength. the Lord must wait for you to come to him so he can show you his love and compassion - for the Lord is a faithful God. http://www.boundtohisheart.blogspot.com/
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07-31-2010, 01:58 PM
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Thanks so much. I have not asked to do marriage counseling as we usually talk everything through so we have never really needed one. Now I have talked to him told him not crying is a bad thing that it means I am moving further apart from our relationship that I need him to show me that it matters to him and for him to reach out after what we just went through with him leashing out on me for something I had nothing to do with. His response was that he is doing the same thing he has last 2 yrs and that is all there is to it.
We are not fighting but we are not talking either. He is small talking. Honestly I am just answering his questions but not offering up conversation myself. I am Tammy
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